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Hotwife texting husband3/12/2024 ![]() ![]() How sly of you to choose Jack and Diane as pseudonyms for your friends. Sure, it will be a shock, but ultimately news of your personal arrangements pales in comparison with being in financial freefall. (I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are.) Explain that you are only revealing this aspect of your personal life because privacy is going to be at a premium, but you hope he can discreetly accept your situation. Obviously, say you aren’t going to go into the mechanics of this set-up, and you intend to protect his kids, as you are protecting the couple’s child, from the details of your intimacy. This means explaining that, unlikely as it may be-and no one is more surprised about this than you-you are in a relationship with the couple next door. I’m afraid I agree with Jack and Diane: The best course is for you to tell your son. Announcing, “I’ll be staying over the neighbors’ for a few nights so that all of you can have the house to yourselves!” is only going to raise suspicions, especially since little Jack Jr. Sneaking around may seem like a possible solution, but consider how that’s going to work. And, frankly, your grown son’s financial debacle shouldn’t require you to put the kibosh on your romantic life, however odd. But since you say you’re unwilling to temporarily retire from your trio, that’s out. Since you’re a loving father who won’t turn away his son, you lay out clearly your three options for how to proceed: put your threesome on ice sneak around come clean. Now that Big Love is off the air, I hope HBO considers the possibilities of a series called Uncle Bob, which tackles both polyamory and the burgeoning social trend of broke adult children returning home. Most people wouldn’t understand, and frankly it would be humiliating! Should I keep the whole thing under wraps while my son and his family are here? Jack and Diane think I should be upfront and tell my son, but then everyone would know about this. Turning away my son in his time of need isn’t an option, but breaking off my relationship isn’t an option either. ![]() Yet when I met the couple I am with, everything seemed to flow so naturally that I didn’t give it a second thought until now. My wife and I had a happy marriage, and we raised our children in a normal, loving home. Our relationship soon became sexual and we are a three-member “couple.” Their son, whom I love dearly, has his own bedroom at my house and calls me “Uncle.” The problem is my youngest son recently lost his job, is in terrible financial straits, and has asked if he, his wife, and two young children can move in with me! I haven’t told any of my children about my unconventional relationship. ![]() I hit it off very quickly with my next door neighbors “Jack” and “Diane,” a married couple in their late 30s with a now-7-year-old son. My wife died 10 years ago, and three years ago I moved into a new house. I am a widower in my mid-50s with three grown children and many grandchildren. We’ve asked today’s columnists to weigh in with modern-day sensibilities. Read all stories here.įor today’s edition, we dug through Slate’s archives and unearthed questions sent to Prudie from the 2010s. ![]() It’s Advice Week! In On Second Thought, we’ll revisit questions from the archives and dig into how much has changed since Slate began giving advice in 1997-and how much hasn’t. ![]()
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